I am who I am.
I am not anyone’s half. I am fine by myself and I can handle being with someone else too.
I’m pretty defensive when it comes to being someone else’s Mrs. I didn’t want to change my name. What’s wrong with mine? Does changing my name guarantee a lasting marriage? I think not. But I did it just the same because it was important to that Mister.
I do not like being identified by my husband’s actions. His actions are his and mine are mine and one cannot be responsible for the other. It’s completely unfair to judge my character based on my husband’s or judge my husband’s character through mine. Contrary to popular belief – a marriage contract does not make two people one. Two different brains mean two different personalities and that is that.
But people cannot be helped and that is that.
2 Comments
Friday, February 20, 2009 at 12:32 am
Though you cannot make two people one, in marriage, you must work as one… else, it just collapses.
Monday, March 9, 2009 at 3:40 pm
ur not considered ur misters wife but ony a FUBU(f—ing buddy).